A Return to Love

I cannot precisely define love because I’m in a fog and 75% of me does not want to leave here…

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The journey to awareness is like mist, sometimes it clears up, sometimes it thickens into a fog. Most people desire to be happy in life. When you ask what happiness is to them, some can describe it as the feeling they get when things work in their favor, others see it wrapped up in a box of chocolate. Some, like my friend, Bill, find happiness in standing beside a maize vendor waiting for a roasted cob of maize after it’s rained. But, is happiness a state? If so, is it constant? If it’s not constant then what happens when we cannot feel it or embrace it?

It is because of this that I experienced the foggy part of awareness. I thought I had everything figured out in a relationship so much so that I could tell when he was about to ask me something about the English Premier League standings…

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6 Things True Leaders Do & How You Can Do The Same!

Effective leadership is difficult to achieve; it’s hard to let go of your inner doer…

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Below are six strategies for making the transition from doer to true leader.

1.  Define what success looks like for your team and share it broadly and consistently.

Try writing down your definition of success on a 3×5 card. This will ensure it’s tangible, focused and easy for you and your team to remember.

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I’M MY OWN GRANDPA!! by Ray Stevens

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Song writer (Ray Stevens)

This really made my day!
I was married to a widow, who was pretty as can be.
This widow, had a grown-up daughter,
Who had hair of red.
My father fell in love with her and soon they too were wed.
This made my dad my son-in-law,
And really changed my life.
Now my daughter was my mother,
Cause she was my father’s wife.
And to complicate the matter,
Even though it brought me joy,
I soon became the father of a bouncing baby boy.
My little baby then became a brother-in-law to dad,
And so became my uncle, though it made me very sad.
For, if-if he were my uncle, then that also made him brother
Of the widow’s grown up daughter, who was of course, my stepmother.
Uh huh.
Father’s wife then had a son who kept them on the run,
And he became my grandchild, for he was my daughter’s son.
My wife is now my mother’s mother, and it makes me blue.
Because although she is my wife, she’s my grandmother too.
God.
Now, if my wife is my grandmother, I am her grandchild, yeah.
And every time I think of it, heh! Nearly drives me wild.
Cause now I have become, the strangest case you ever saw,
As husband of my grandmother, I am my own grandpa.
Oh I’m my own grandpa.
I’m my own grandpa.
It sounds funny I know, but it really is so,
Oh I’m my own grandpa.
I’m my own grandpa.
I’m my own grandpa.
Talk about incest!
It sounds funny I know, but it really is so,
I’m my own grandpa

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Quote #3 for Valentine

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Choose happiness

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Some inspiration for you today, from a pin that I came across on Pinterest.

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Allow yourself to be truly happy, thankful and content. If you can be at peace with yourself then your life will be peaceful.

Give love to others wherever you can and you’ll find that every small step that you take towards changing your mindset will change your life.

Have the best day x

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VALENTINE’S DAY GIFT IDEAS FOR THE MR.

I also suggest these.

The Grovychic

Hi my loves; in the spirit of valentine I decided to post a few gift ideas that might be helpful to you. Please feel free to suggest more ideas. Happy viewing, I’ll talk to you in my next post. Bye…..

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Acceptance

“Get over it”.

A directory of wonderful things

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I like to think of myself as a strong independant woman inspite of the fact that I too, have spent nights crying. .sadly, that includes crying over my past. .and the truth is, it hurts. .Sometimes, I can go months at a time without thinking about him but then all of a sudden, it will hit me. .not him per se, but the memories we made. .sometimes, they make me smile, sometimes they make me numb. .
Talking about Crying. . Does that made me any less strong? I understand it wasn’t meant to be, but still there’s a part of me that is still not over him. .does that make me vulnerable?
That’s a question I always think about.. And the answer I always come up with, is a firm ‘No’. Because, Iam strong enough to accept it. .and trust me, it takes a lot of courage to do…

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Genuine confession

Highlight the positive; use the negative.
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I’m really fucking happy.

My life isn’t close to perfect, but mindfulness makes the distance seem shorter. Highlight the positive; use the negative. Exercise your body and your mind — the more fine tuned your instrument, the clearer your sound. And most importantly PAY ATTENTION to the life you’re living. Awareness of detail will help you become the person you wish to attract. We’re naturally drawn to good energy.

I wanted to put it in writing in case I hit a rough spot and think otherwise later.

I’m feeling so affectionate these days I feel like picking up babies and twirling them around in joy. But I think felony charge would dampen the mood, so I’m going to put a hold on that. For now.

Peace babes. Besos 😘

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Feels Like Home

It is that comfort that draws me to you like a magnet. I love it. And I love you. But you already know that.

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Right way of celebration

Our whole day will be more special and full of happiness if we show a small kind gesture  to those also who really needs it ..

Right way of living

We all celebrate all the special days of our lives with lots of food , fun and frolic . It’s always good to celebrate every moment of life . Our celebration can turn into God’s blessings if during every celebration we remember to lessen God’s burden a little by not forgetting to include those in our celebration who are deprived of many things in life . Our whole day will be more special and full of happiness if we show a small kind gesture to those also who really needs it .

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